Charlotte Xavier- I read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" . Great book but unfortunately you can't "make friends' with everyone. lol
My first few bosses were women and they spoiled me into thinking all women bosses are nice. The last several were nightmares!
One took an immediate dislike to me and I never knew why. She accused me of things which I didn't do, faulted me for things other coworkers could do with no problem and sabotaged me. I finally knew she was full of @#@# when she lied to my face.
I wasn't getting called in to work. I wasn't considered full time. But I usually worked 40 hour weeks. But then, she didn't put me on the schedule. Told me she tried to call me "so many times".. I told her flat out that I had caller I.D. and I never got calls from her cell phone or the company phone number. She just had a stupid look on her pockmarked face. I quit soon after.
The word 'pockmarked' wasn't to meant to be mean, just descriptive. She also was tall and, politically incorrect to say it, fat and dressed like a slob.
I've had several female bosses like that, really overweight, no make-up, atrocious grooming, flip flops at work.
I happen to be petite and I always show up for work well groomed, wearing appropriate clothes and make-up.
My last supervisor was grossly overweight and dressed like she was going to wash her car! She was nice to my face. I never complained about all the extras hours she gave me. I know I worked hard. She badmouthed the higher ups a lot when they weren't around. But when it came to crunch time, when I was falsely accused of nonsense that I never did, she piled on, switched her story and sided with the bosses to save her own supersized rear end. What a backstabber! You never saw such a company kiss-ass!
I dread the thought of another obese woman boss who dresses like a slob! No matter how polite I was to the last few, no matter how hard I worked, they were women with crappy personalities who should never have been bosses!
I cut my losses and quit!
Yeah, that’s awful. Jealousy is one dangerous and ugly emotion.
They won’t live long. Obesity kills people young.