I’d say 9/10 times the guy is with a girl who is way out of his league. I think they’re just attracted to blind arrogance and mistake it for confidence.
Yes I see that angle, but the man is well versed in Scorsese’s filmography and is still bitter by his Oscar snubbing. He needs to avoid this topic at all cost if he wants love to blossom.
I don’t know the guys but I have met many strippers in clubs who work there to support their kids because their husbands or kid’s fathers either send them there to work or just don’t support them. It just puzzles me because there must be a lot of nice caring guys that would have loved to take care of them.
Assholes tend to have traits which are misconstrued as strengths. I would bet that plays a part in the poor choices some make when choosing their partner.
I have done it and the reason is all the myths are wrong. Good looking women don't get hit on a lot as everyone is intimidated. In the end you just have to do is approach and talk to them. Usually unusual places are better, not bars etc
There is a very simple formula to it really. But in the end confidence is key.
Oh and don't believe all that shit about being yourself. That might be the main problem. Try being someone else instead.
I actually think the whole “beautiful women rarely get hit on because everyone is intimidated” thing is a myth. I’m sure plenty of people are afraid to approach but they still get hit on plenty, I’d say conservatively at least 10-15 times a day directly and indirectly and that’s not counting all of the cat calls, double takes and other forms of attention they get.
You are right about confidence though, that’s 99% of it.
I don't count getting looked at. I check women out all the time without any serious interest in them. I don't do the call thing but that doesn't count either.
There is a fine line between being hit on and actually spoken to as well.
I agree with mb. Its a myth . Athough I think his numbers are wrong
possibly they get "hit on" a bit less than they might do because guys think they're already taken - both becasue they can choose whoever they want (sort of) , and theyre not short of offers.