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How are you supposed to french kiss?


I'm 32 years old, and i've never properly frenched kiss before. I don't really know how it works, and what you're supposed to do, but I know when the right guy has kissed me before i've liked it.

I mean tap kisses when I say that. My only experience being tongue kissed before was when a guy tongue kised me that I liked, and it went horrible because I didn't know what I was doing. He was a little embarassed for me, and from that point on we just tap kissed and stuff, even when we were doing more advanced things and stuff.

How are you supposed to french kiss? When do you know to get ready to do it? When do you know to use your tongue for the kiss? How do you use you tongue in the kiss? How do you use your lips? How do you know when a guy wants to tongue kiss versus tap kiss?

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You have to be really in love with each other first, and they can show you how :). It is technically using tongues, but it's a very intimate form of kissing, so that's why it's usually only done between lovers or people who are getting really serious about each other's relationship.

The exception to this rule are people who are into "friends with benefits" relationships, but again, someone would still have to show the other person how the kissing is done first to do it right.

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Honestly, you can't really explain it since there's no definitive rule on how to do it properly. I suggest you to find someone who will be nice enough to really show you. It really is something that you learn with practice. I first french kissed at 14, but it was really awkward. At 17, one of my female friend was cool enough to teach me how to do it properly.

But if someone would twist my arm to explain it: don't push your tongue inside the other person mouth roughly and quickly. This is just really unpleasant. I remember a girl who was doing that, I just felt violated by it.

What I suggest to do: at first, put your lips on his/her lips and barely (if not at all) open your mouth. Then progressively open it more and more while moving your lips against his/hers (open and close your mouth progressively and repeatedly). Now, SLOWLY start to progressively move your tongue forward with in and out movements. At first, it'll probably smoothly lick her/his lips. She/He will probably get into the movement as well so from now on, synchronize your movements with his/hers and always remember: don't go deep. Don't put your tongue in his/her mouth aggressively like if you wanted to taste what he/she had for lunch.

Hope that helped a little.

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As often in sex, the key is not to try to reach objectives, but to be playful and to explore and enjoy. A bit of kiss, using the tongue to lick the lips, and perhaps the inside part of the lips, then smoothly biting them, and then maybe you can change and lick or bite the ears, and then go back. Don't be static, play, surprise. Sex is about having fun.

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^this

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Yeah this... sums it up better. Still, a bit of practice doesn't harm lol.

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the worst thing is when you just shove your tongue in and swirl it round 😣 ive had a few like that.
Like kukuxu said, it's about being playful and in the moment rather a set routine that you use everytime.

My best advice is to do to them whatever you like done to you πŸ‘

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You're gonna need some pliers and a set of thirty-weight ball bearings. You're also gonna need about 10 quarts of antifreeze, Prestone.

No, better make it Quaker State.

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πŸ‘†This man knows how to get it done!

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LOL!

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Definitely trolling here, right? This is just too funny if it’s real.

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Most likely but I enjoy a good natured trolling...It tends to crack me up and it beats the hell out of the same old racist, sexist, anti-Jew jive

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This is true.

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It's funny either way.

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Kissing 101 always have gum on you. 32 and never kissed with tongue before. I was gonna say practice with your cousin but at your age that would be weird.

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I went out with this girl once and when we kissed it felt like my whole mouth was completely filled with her tongue - it was quite possibly the least erotic feeling ever. Honestly, it felt like a b-movie alien entity was trying to orally impregnate me. Needless to say it only lasted a couple of dates.

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