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What do you think of someone who is promiscuous?


Would it be strange to meet a man in his mid forties who claims to have slept with at least 80 different women? And you find out that they've been doing that their whole life since their late teen's.

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No I don't think having slept with 80 women by the time you are in your 40s is strange. It seems almost conservative to me.

As long as they are not hurting anybody or passing on disease, I don't see why someone's sex life is anyone else's concern.

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Please tell us you don’t believe what you wrote! 😱 80 women by the time he’s 45? Not gonna happen unless he’s selling himself. Let’s suppose he had his first experience at about age 16. He’s age 45 now which makes him 29 years older. He claims he’s had 80 women during those 29 years. That would be almost 3 women per day/night! Like I said it didn’t happen unless he’s a man-whore!

BTW, conservative? I would say...you’re dreaming!

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I thought a year is around 365 days?

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LOL

You wanna check your figures?

If a man started having sex at 18 and had 80 sexual partners by the time he was 45, that's 2.96 different partners a year. Not at all strange for a single man.

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You’re correct! Sorry, I made such a blatant error. It was late and I didn’t have my thinking cap on!

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Don't mention it, completely understand, I'm notoriously terrible with maths myself most of the time lol

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I used to be so good in General Math. Rcvd A+ all through high school. I did most equations in my head without pencil & paper. I think that’s why I excelled in Mechanical Drawing. But, something happened to me through the years. I suppose it was the heavy smoking and the red Solo cups drained dry every day. Ya think? My husband was a Programmer/Analyst, very logical in his thinking. Now the most simple things stump him. It’s hell to get old...

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No, I heard 80 women give or take and he started having sex at 18.

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Wow, swing and a miss on the math there lol

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Move the decimal point. 😀

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Sorry! It was late!

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Lol 👍 I do the same.

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quite a spectacular one!
Even if you mis-read the OP as 80/year

Wait , i gotta do the maths on where bat from that swing ended up ....
"almost 3 women per day/night"
ok lets say 2.75/day , from 18 to 45
(54-18) *365 *2.75 = 36,135

+another 25 shags for leap years

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LOL gotta love those leap years!

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It was spectacular wasn’t it? If true. Sorry, I goofed!

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Sorry, guys! I goofed big time!

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we all do it from time to time :)

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Sorry, it was very late. a crisis at home. Thabks for calling me out.

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Lol we all have our moments (and some of us like myself, more than our fair share)! Hope the crisis was nothing too serious.

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I did didn’t I? No escuse other than it was 4 in the morning and a crisis at home

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Hey Kissy, I think you may have misread what the OP typed - it's nearly 3 a year, not 3 a night, lol.

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Oh dear! I goofed! It was late! Like at 4 in the morning. I based t on 29 years not per year for 29 years. I’ll take my punishment now by slapping me with a blown of condom! Sorry guys and thank you for setting me straight! Crisis at home also...daughter OD on script again!

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Ah. I'm sorry to hear that. I quit in February after 12 years. It can be done. All my thoughts are with you both. You have my prayers and, I'm sure, all your friends here as well.

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Hope your girl is OK
That's pretty scary K
Best wishes to you and your family Dear Lady😙

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Oh wow really sorry to hear that. Hoping it all works out for you and your family!

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Thanks to all of you for your concern!

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I guessed that's what had happened. It gave us a much needed giggle.

On a serious note, sorry to hear about your daughter. I hope it all works out ok.

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^This^

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Doesn't matter to me. Even if she is promiscuous, she'll still probably just want the hunks. I won't have a chance.

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I think it's a case by case thing. For instance Grace Kelly versus Harvey Weinstein. Both promiscuous but very different people.

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Grace Kelly never did it with anyone who wasn't willing.

I mean, how could she?

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Precisely. Grace Kelly was God's gift to men, and she and the men she had sex with knew it !

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It was very generous of her, gracious even.

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A happy combination of great beauty and nymphomania.

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Do you happen to know if she, er, kept going in her later years?

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I've no idea but I imagine it would have been difficult to live that way in the goldfish bowl of a Royal Court. She should have stayed in Hollywood in my opinion but who knows ?


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I think "Have fun, and play safe!".

That's all, really.

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Do people actually keep track of how many people they've been with?

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I do. It's only 5.

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I remember all of them

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No it wouldn't be strange. That number is normal for a sexually active adult.

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I don’t think it would be strange. It isn’t any of my business how many people someone has slept with.

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weird is in the eye of the beholder, i suppose. 80 sex partners in a lifetime is almost certainly pretty unusual.

i'm off to work and can't look up the stats, but i'd guess that surely must be in the top 1%. so by definition, that's pretty unique.

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