What do men really want
I knew this gurl who got a new boyfriend every few months, she wasnt even smart or attractive. GUYS just seems to like her.
shareI knew this gurl who got a new boyfriend every few months, she wasnt even smart or attractive. GUYS just seems to like her.
shareTo become the Batman
shareTo have a shit load of money
Be well liked by most attractive females
Be tall
Be entertained(by movies, music, shows and sports)
REGULAR QUALITY VAGINA.
shareOf course men vary in their tastes and desires...
But the older I get, the more I realize is that what straight men really want from a woman... is their approval. They want a woman who is impressed by their attempts to impress her.
Okay, that's not all they want, there's also sex and childbearing and vacuumed floors. But they really do respond to women who admire them, a straight woman can make a lot of ground that way.
I think everyone wants someone who is responsive to them. That is the whole thing with flirting, it is meant to be fun. The gender war has killed that off though, you wouldn't just approach a woman anymore and compliment her or try and flirt.
shareyeah this metoo movement is really dumb......i feel sorry for men these days, how are you supposed to get a girl without getting sued?
shareWhen you hear/read stories of old couples it's always the same thing. The man asked the woman out and she says no, he asks her again at a later point, she says no and so the game continues. Eventually she says yes. That is how it worked back then. Not to mention the man working out what she likes, where she hangs out etc which is by our standards stalking!
So the modern flirting ritual, if it even gets this far...
Man: "Ummm Hi.. I would love to chat with you... sorry..."
Woman: "Hi, don't be sorry. Why me?"
Man: "Ummm... I don't know.. you are really pretty... sorry.."
Woman: "You apologize a lot.. It's ok.. so what did you want to chat about?"
Man: "Ummmm sorry..."
Woman: "Where you going? I thought you liked me?"
Man: "Sorry!" as he runs away.
Not to mention women also have to be "attractive" as in be able to attract a man to them and I don't just mean for sex. Can she actually engage a man in conversation? Or does she think just by being there that her job is done?
Flirting seems to be becoming a bit of a lost art, and not just because of the "gender wars".
Too may people either dispense with flirting or want to get it over with as soon as possible because they want to get onto the main event, and few of the worst offenders in that are women. Flirting isn't enjoyed or appreciated, not for its own sake.
We live in a very pragmatic time, no nuance or sense of romance. Everything is very direct and crude I agree.
shareI agree, we live in direct and crude times.
And a time when interpersonal social skills are on the decline, thanks to so many being absorbed social media and/or smartphones. Good flirting requires a good sense of how the other person is responding to one's banter, whether they're going for it or whether it's time to take a step back and make a joke. IMHO some of the whole "gender wars" incidents have arisen when people try to flirt without having a clue how the other person is taking it.
People also seem to be in a rush to go nowhere fast. It has to be attraction at first sight, it has to be quick. These things can happen but they are rare and often short lived. Connection takes time to build up but why bother.
Some people can't flirt at all, it's not about smutty pick up lines or being a bimbo. I think you have to be aware of how the person is receiving it that is true but also if you are on the receiving end, it helps to not be a snowflake about things. So you might get called attractive, oh my god! Call the cops!
Most men do crave female approval. Women are good at exploiting that too.
shareWise. Keep stroking that ego, they’ll be happy.
shareOf course, top-notch ego stroking is a rare skill, many try but few can make it seem sincere and natural. Fewer still have the patience to keep at it over the long term.
Still, getting good at ego-stroking is one way to date above your league.
this is why i dont like men, they get really pissed off when you attack their ego.
Ass kissing dont work on women all that much.........
"Ass kissing don't work on women all that much" oh yes it does. Flatter most women in the right way and it works. That is part of the reason bad boys are so popular, they talk a lot of shit.
"They get really pissed off when you attack their ego"
I think anyone would be pissed off if you "attacked" them in anyway. After all who wants to be with someone who attacks you?
I am probably an exception but I hate being kissed up to by anyone. I see right through it.
"I don't like men"
Nobody really cares whether you like men or not tbf.
"Ass kissing doesn't work on women". It does.
"They get pissed when you attack their ego". This is more true of women than it is of men.
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A girl that likes what I like. I m into comics,video games and action movies,There are female cosplayers and more femael gamers these days so it doesn't seem like a problem.
As far as looks go they can be athetic,curvy(Like Kat Dennings) or body postive(Like Ashley Graham)
Those are the best types. Girls who are into your interests i.e. video games become more attractive in your eyes. They're really fun to be around.
I dated a girl who was into half life and sports in general and I've never had as much fun as I did with her.