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my shrink says i am cynical because i have low self esteem


i say i just happen to be realistic about things.

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Probably true, you should agree with him and show you have some introspection.

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Do you lie down on a nice leather day bed during these sessions or is that just a movie thing?

Serious question

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yeah, ps psychology isnt an exact science, a lot of mumble jumble.

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So cynical. Your shrink has a point.

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I had to go to a headshrinker when my folks broke up decades ago...the guy had no idea what he was doing...total asshat but it was appointed by the court:/

I had to see him twice a week for months...it was a huge misery

Some years later his wife very publicly left him because he was catting around with all of his secretaries LOL...and him with small kids of his own!

Head doctors are full of lies
The Irish way is best...the truth is at the bottom of a pint

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"Maybe it'll be at the bottom of the next pint!!"

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I don't know you, but judging by many of your posts here, I would agree.

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my parents had a messy marriage

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I'm sorry to hear that. That can mess up a kid.

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Being cynical has nothing to do with self esteem. Being cynical is questioning things you hear/see on the media. Find a new shrink.

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Nothing wrong with questioning things we see on the media. But cynicism is broader than that.

It's an overall, prevailing attitude of looking at people and the world with suspicion and distrust, default mode being that everyone's only out for themselves at the expense of others. The worst thing about it is people who are cynical often create situations where either people truly are only out for themselves, or they think they are and behave accordingly, alienating the people who are trustworthy.

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All the best with your self esteem. But I have to wonder, is being cynical a negative? I feel like being cynical is just being a person. A person with a lot of experience.

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a person who understands that things are more complicated than they actually are

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Grasshopper, not all doors lead to the same room.

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