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Men, have you ever ....

posted 5 years ago by ColumboKate (5308)
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... licked your lips in a (creepy) seductive way?

What reaction do you expect from this? Really?!!!

I was on a late shift tonight and a man drunk and high on weed came in - to be fair he was very compliant and polite but still, out of his mind...
...And he did that slow lick around his lips which just makes me cringe and want to get a million miles between us .... but I'm interested in what men actually think this is going to achieve?!!
Trust me, unless she's being paid, no woman ever has thought that this was positive action 😾 ... so ? ...

[–] ShogunofYonkers (71430) 5 years ago

Well, as you stated he seemed very drunk and high, 'out of his mind' even...I don't believe for a minute that sober and sane men do this sort of thing
Instead of asking all men what we hope this might achieve you could have narrowed your question down to 'what creepy assholes believe this is going to achieve...'

You could have phrased this better imo, I know a ton of guys and most are very decent people

[–] ColumboKate (5308) 5 years ago

I'm happy you're one of the good ones lol. Maybe it's a cultural thing 🤷‍♀️ but this happens too often where I'm from (west Midlands UK).... granted it's always at night so they are probably not sober. To me it seems a bit of an intimidation action 😾

[–] ShogunofYonkers (71430) 5 years ago

It's beyond gross and frankly it's sexually threatening

I hope the dope puked his guts out, fell on his face in an alley and awoke the next day with some self awareness

[–] ColumboKate (5308) 5 years ago

Amen !

[–] TexasJack (12515) 5 years ago

Sometimes my lips get super dry and if I don’t have some Chap Stik handy, I will kind of fold the lip and bite it so I can get the tongue over it without it being seen. Creepiness avoided, hopefully.

[–] ColumboKate (5308) 5 years ago

😸 bless ya, no that's not creepy

[–] ShogunofYonkers (71430) 5 years ago

You creep me out every time you do that😬

[–] actionkamen (23176) 5 years ago

Yeah super dry lips creep me out everytime!

[–] Mrmojo4700 (20411) 5 years ago

Never. I’ve never tried to “pick up” a woman by any means that even comes close to that.

[–] ColumboKate (5308) 5 years ago

Glad to hear it Mrmojo... seriously, ask your female friends, I bet they've all experienced this 😾

[–] LauraGrace (15570) 5 years ago

My sister, yes. And that disgusting tongue flapping thing. Boys are nasty. Mostly.....

mostly.

[–] sslssg (27403) 5 years ago

Oh yes! That tongue flapping is so gross!

[–] TexasJack (12515) 5 years ago

Flapping? Are these men or reptiles?

[–] sslssg (27403) 5 years ago

I think they are trying to demonstrate their oral skills?

[–] ColumboKate (5308) 5 years ago

Oh God, the tongue flap is even worse! Do they think it makes us want to jump in bed with them ? Makes me want to run away 😖

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

maybe he had dry mouth.

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

Only when i eat ice cream.

[–] SashaJustice (0) 5 years ago

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[–] howgamer (3644) 5 years ago

I don't think many men do this. Maybe he had cotton mouth since he was high? I could see a guy doing this if he was already in bed with a woman, but at a complete stranger would be quite awkward to say the least.

However, if Ryan Reynolds, or some other studmuffin, was licking his lips at you would you have the same reaction?

[–] ColumboKate (5308) 5 years ago

Yeah It's creepy and just makes me think they are a tw*t 🤷‍♀️