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Millennials don't know how awesome the 90s were.


I'm close with a millennial. I'd marry her if she'd have me. We hang out a lot and she has lots of friends the same age. None of them know how awesome the 90s were. They know the shows and they know the music. But they don't know the atmosphere. They think now times is like all times. When I was young, I had an understanding of older times. I don't get it. I know I come off like super dork when I get talking about the 90s. But jesus. There was literally magic in the air.

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There was literally magic in the air.

In what way? Can you give an example or two of why you think so?

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I can't answer for TandyMan but I kinda get what he means by that - and yet I can't give an example myself. I don't even know what I mean by that, but there sorta-kinda was. Don't know why.

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Probably because he was young then, vs there actually being magic in the air, lol. People from the 80s/2000s/70s who were the same age at that point probably felt the same. That said I do think things were better before everyone spent their life looking down at a phone.

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JoeHallenbeck: "That said I do think things were better before everyone spent their life looking down at a phone. "

Exactly my feelings too, Joe.

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If you ever experienced the sound of a dial up modem followed by "Welcome! You've got mail!" You'd know exactly what he means!

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I thought the ‘90s was the childhood of the Millenials. Rugrats and whatnot. I think the best part of being a Millenial in the ‘90s was growing up with the roll out of Harry Potter books. The excitement of waiting for the next book, then the movies later on. On the flip side the tech was crap and corporations manipulated the kids with mass marketing of junky toys.

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This was what I was going to say. Millennials were born between 81-96 or around there depending who you listen to, so that means that almost all milennials would know what the 90's were like.

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The 90s is overrated. We had no internet, let alone mobile internet. No google maps, no wikipedia, no nothing.

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I had internet in 1995. It was dial-up and search engines sucked. So, finding sites was a pain unless you had the exact URL already.

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Yeah. You had to know how to use maps. And you had to read books. Knowledge and capability mattered.

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Word

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And somehow we were able to live with that. Back then we weren't as obsessed with social media, which was a good thing. The 90s were awesome.

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I agree with Stratego. Not yet having those things, we didn't feel deprived! Nobody was staring at their phones, checking their social media instead of just actually talking to the person right there with them in the room, lol.

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Even the early 2000s were better than today. I swear, life was far better back before Farcebook and Twitwad.

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I think that sometimes. But then I get to wonder whether I'm deluding myself since every generation probably experienced the same nostalgia over the quirks of their generation after the next generation came along.

It makes me think I'm sounding like the cranky old man skit from the old SNL sketches with Dana Carvey.

"I didn't own a toothbrush, we just let our teeth rot and we liked it that way".

Paraphrasing from memory. But I certainly don't want to sound like a bitter old man thinking those days where I had to actually use a map and spent countless hours getting lost, or had to go to a library to do research, were qualitatively better.

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I think you're right about this. Most folks think their youth was magical, special, the best of times. Nice thought, but it's according to their perspective.

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In my case it's odd though because the 90s were not my youth, I was already an adult, and yet I liked them the best. My youth was the 60s, 70s and 80s and I pretty much look back on all of those with a faint loathing!

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I'm sorry you're not able to read maps.

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Me too. It was more just an ignorant false confidence of not taking care to really study a map until I was lost and hating life. But my quality of life has improved from never getting lost anymore, I can't deny that.

Regardless I recognize overall my life as subjectively better in the 90s, it was my favorite decade. But I ascribe being younger and nostalgia as the likeliest reason I probably feel that way of the 90s than anything specific to the decade.

As for the downsides noted in this thread, I don't blame the technology. I think as humans we try to avoid direct contact with unknown people as much as possible. At least I do that when waiting for a cab or bus, I'm not interested in small talk. This picture sums up my thoughts conveniently:

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DzrdDiWUcAAQUVP.jpg:large

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Nested to the wrong place!
That's exactly why some people liked the 90s - it was the last era when life was simpler. You don't miss what you haven't had yet. And those things, while convenient now, also complicate society.

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The World Wide Web became available in 1994 by phone line, and everyone and their dog was using it by 1996, where were you?

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Sorry, but no. Not everyone was using the internet by 1996. First adopters were, but certainly not everyone. We got our first computer and internet access in 1999, and we were the first among our circle of family and friends.

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Yeah all 36 websites available on the web in 1994. Not like there was much there. I was in college at the time so had blazing speed and access while living in the campus unix center. I had access to much more than what the typical person outside academia would even have interest in from 1994. That web wasn't even a thing yet. The only availble browser was Mosaic and it was super buggy.

Not much outside of email to friends and family who also had an email addressed for the masses to want to use that year.

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Didn't get it until 2000, when I was 18.

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But we had Encarta!!!

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Lol. Yeah, I loved it back then. Using my brand new Pentium MMX 'puter with CD-ROM drive and 16MB RAM. It's magical!

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I loved the Mindmaze. I spent hours and hours playing that.

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I loved the 90s. I think of the 90s as my favorite decade of my life, and I'm getting old and rusty now, so it's a longish life I'm talking about.

The 90s were probably the last and final era before cellphones truly became something everyone and their dog had, was staring at all day, and are more interested in than, oh, I don't know, actually talking the person you're actually with right there...

The internet and cell phones have changed society - in some ways improved situations, possibilities and communications, but in other ways devastated true connection.

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Yes, good point, but did you overlook the part where I did mention the positive side of them ("in some ways improved situations, possibilities and communications") ?

And it could also be said that those negative fears about each of those old technologies turned out to be not entirely without truth to them. Everything new we bring into being does indeed kill something off while also bringing new convenience.

But the rub lies in just how much detrimental effect. I would argue that of all the inventions that were ever blamed for changing society for the worse, everyone glued permanently to their phones for one thing could be one of the worst. I sure despise that this is how everyone behaves socially now when they're in the same room together.

Just because "Oh everyone's always blamed the latest thing" doesn't mean it's not true that it's damaging.

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Very true, though I will say that some things have not changed, it's just the methods people use to do them have changed, such as finding your way around a new town, moving, buying a house, buying a car, getting married, having kids. A lot really hasn't changed, save for the WAY we do it.

What really bothers me is how we're all reminded by the internet that society has gotten dumber. People don't have to work as hard to learn something, but not everything they learn is useful or accurate.

One thing I plan on teaching my kids someday, is how to appreciate how we used to do things, and how to do some stuff that many parents have forgotten to teach their kids, like critical thinking, writing cursive, studying all the stuff they leave out of school, how to read a roadmap and get out of being lost without help from a cell or GPS, how we used to do stuff before the internet, how we communicated in the past, etc.

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Those are good skills to preserve, for sure, AmeriGirl. Particularly how to get out of being lost without the technical help.

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Yeah man, definitely magic in the air back then. Also a whole shit ton of lsd.

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LSD isn't popular anymore. Everybody wants crack and meth. But acid was wonderful. You didn't murder your girlfriend and kids or anything.

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Went hand in hand with the musical revolution that was happening at the time... I agree, these kids are missing out.

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😆now THAT is a damn shame! Put your phones down kids, and go do some good old-fashioned drug experimenting!!!

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Right? Just avoid the bath salts kids. You guys have experimented with those enough!!!

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I also have some friends that are millennials. I was talking about my parents generation and Woodstock. My friend that is very much into good music didn’t know what Woodstock was. I debated between kicking his ass or kicking him out of my house.

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🙂🙂🙂🙂

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Tell her how you feel

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this song came out in the 90s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Va0vs1fhhNI

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Actually kind of comforting in a strange sense knowing that no matter the time, place, or generation, there's still a lot of things people can relate to with each other.

~~/o/

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You have mentioned this song several times as I recall
Not a bad ditty
Is it a favorite of yours?

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it's a fun song. This is my favorite 90s song

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1lyu1KKwC74

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Good song
Reminds me of U2 quite a bit

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This song represents the 90s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1lyu1KKwC74

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