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Do you prefer going to the movies alone or with people?


Personally I prefer alone. I go to a movie to watch, not talk. I especially can't stand those large groups of like 10 people who go see a movie together, walk in 10 minutes into the movie, take another 10 minutes to find their seats, all while talking and using their phone's flashlight, and continue trying to talk their friend who's 5 seats down from them.

What about you?

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I hate when groups go see movies because they are usually rowdy. Although I do prefer going with one other person. I don't mind going alone either.

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With people, except occasionally I watch Sci-Fi movies alone, cause I'm surrounded with people who don't appreciate this genre and tend to ruin those movies for me by talking during the movie out of boredom.

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I feel like that with every genre. Maybe I just need better friends haha.

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Or maybe they just can't concentrate for 2 hours. It's hard to believe that every genre annoys them. If that's the case then the problem is in them and not in the movies. They sound like millenials.

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I don't go to theaters any more. Too expensive and no longer a great experience.... not the way it use to be.
When I did, I loved going with my husband or to a matinee with my son and a few of his friends. Now?????
I prefer my big screen TV, my choice of the movie, of which, I have hundreds to choose from. I enjoy company, but I enjoy watching tearjerkers on my own.
I can pause for bathroom breaks and trips to the kitchen for drinks and snacks!

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My greatest memory of seeing a movie alone was Star Wars Ep. III, the last and best of the prequels (or least worst).

It was Friday, opening day. I lived in North Hollywood. My only job that day was to fly to San Francisco to pick up evidence for a case and then fly back. I was done with work by 1pm.

My roommates were at work, and I was bored, so I got the idea to check out the next showing of Ep. III that I could find. It was very soon, I didn't have much time at all. The theater I bought a ticket for did NOT have reserved seating, so I just bought it online and rushed to the theater.

I get there, and there are LONG lines at the ticket counters, as well as at least 3 huge lines of people in designated areas waiting for the next few showings, even up to the 7pm showing which was still several hours away. I think there were more lines in other areas, but it's been years, obviously, and I only clearly remember the ones I passed.

I walked right past everyone, picked up my ticket from an automated kiosk with no line, and walked into the theater with only five minutes to spare before trailers were going to start.

I was quickly able to spot a single seat in the row I wanted, and the seat was dead center. It was between two groups of people who were obviously separated, and no one was saving the seat.

No waiting, no lines, and I got the perfect seat without any reservation.

That experience taught me the value of going alone.

=)

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It depends on the movie, my mood, and the people available to go with me.

I've had a good time going with people, because it is fun to have someone to talk with about it afterwards. Come to think of it, that's the only reason it's fun to go with people. Unless it's dinner or whatever afterwards.

Also, come to think of it, that's what made IMDb's boards (and now MC's) so popular -- having people to discuss them with afterwards.

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Right! Now that we have moviechat, there's no need to go to the movies with friends anymore.

Well, unless you want to avoid looking like a loner / loser. Not a problem for me, I'll just throw on my Batman mask.

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Not if we don't want to, anyway :)

I don't care what others might think if I want to go to a movie by myself. Why would it be their business? Anyone who'd come to the conclusion that another is a loner, let alone a loser, based on seeing them viewing a movie by themselves would be the one with the problem ;)

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im asking this guy out.

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Lol me? I wonder what the misses would have to say about that.

(And if anyone's wondering, yes, even though I'm in a relationship I still go to the movies alone quite often!)

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I hate talking during a movie,and I hate arguing about what movie to see, so those facets are better if I go alone. I had a first date once where the guy was CONSTANTLY talking, asking me "who is that guy" or "what happened" or "what did she say, I missed it". OMFG just watch it and figure it out.
But I do like talking about the movie with someone afterwards, and I like socializing, making a night of it with dinner, drinks, etc, so it's a toss up. These days I usually go alone but I wouldn't mind having a movie buddy who liked the same types of movies as me and who knows to keep their pie hole shut in the theater.

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I stopped going to movies years ago. Audiences became too rude - mainly talking constantly as though they were sitting in their living room at home - no consideration for those around them. Besides, it became no longer necessary to go to the theater once VCRs and then DVD players came along. I can't imagine how bad it is now with cell phones added to the mix. No thanks.

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Well unfortunately the movie industry forces you to go to the theater if you want to see a new movie. Doesn't make much sense. I'd pay the same price for a ticket just to be able to watch it at home.

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That's the drawback of not going to the theater - you won't be seeing the new ones when everyone else does. After all this time I'm used to it and it doesn't bother me if it takes a while to see it. One misses a lot of bad movies this way. It gives you time to see the feedback so you don't waste your time (or money) on a stinker. However, sometimes it's hard to avoid the spoilers.

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